The Circumcision Debate

Author: By Georganne Chapin
Posted: Monday, June 29, 2009

When my son was born in 1980, little did I know that a decision his father and I made would later become a cause.  “We’re not going to have him circumcised,” we told the doctor.  Why not?  Well, we simply thought it strange that newborn baby boys should need immediate surgery to remove a normal body part. 

So we said no, and over the years, I didn’t think much about circumcision.  But when my son was 17, I overheard him talking with a group of male relatives about circumcision, saying that he felt both lucky and grateful.  That’s when I began to investigate, and I became an activist or, as we are known, an intactivist!

 

The U.S. is the only country in the world where doctors routinely circumcise baby boys. In other English-speaking countries, like Britain and Canada, the procedure was once practiced widely but now has been virtually abandoned as a poor use of health care funds. 

In most of Europe, Asia, India, Latin America and the Caribbean, parents would no more be asked if they want to circumcise their baby boy than they would be asked the same question about their daughter. 

 

Most Americans don’t know that medical circumcision started in the 19th century, when it was promoted to stop masturbation (not one of the most effective health measures, by all accounts).  Never having witnessed a circumcision, most people are also unaware of what it entails. 

The current explanations for circumcision (hygiene, prevention of disease) say more about our own fears than about the surgery’s benefits.  It seems we are afraid our boys won’t learn to wash their genitals, even though they can be taught to wash their hands and brush their teeth!  As for sexually-transmitted infections, common sense tells us that safe sex practices are the only effective prevention.  

 

Our discomfort with talking about body parts, especially the ones related to sex, together with a reluctance to question cultural norms (think of driving on the right side of the road), means that when circumcision or the foreskin is mentioned, many people defend the practice or make light of it. 

The media regularly refers to the surgery as a “snip” and the prepuce (foreskin) as “funny looking” or “useless.”  In reality, the amount of sensitive, nerve-laden tissue removed from a baby in a typical circumcision amounts to nearly half of his penile skin.

 

With good information as well as many videos now available over the internet, American parents are learning that their child’s natural penis is nothing to fear, and the circumcision rate is falling.  Over the past decade, I have talked with thousands of people about circumcision. 

Parents who at one time may have worried that their intact sons would be made fun of “in the locker room” are now saying, “We think nature knows best; and we will leave the decision for him.”  Many doctors tell me their own sons are not circumcised.  And fathers know that if their sons can have different eyes and hair color, then cutting off a body part to make the boy “look like Dad” might be going a bit too far. 

 

Georganne Chapin, an attorney, is the President and Chief Executive Officer of Hudson Health Plan and the Hudson Center for Health Equity and Quality, which recently received grant funding to establish Intact America.  For more information, see http://www.intactamerica.org

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November 04, 2009 | 11:06 PM
 
No, Georganne, infant circumcision has NOT been "virtually abandoned" in Canada. What did happen was that the 10 provinces over a period of years, one by one, stopped funding it. But lots of parents still want Junior clipped and there's no shortage of private clinics doing the deed.
 
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August 20, 2009 | 3:41 AM
 
In the US, female and male circ. were introduced at the same time. 1976 was the year female circumcisions were no longer being funded by Blue Cross who paid for my friend's circumcision when she was 8 years old. You can read her book "Rape of Innocence" by Patricia Robinett. Discover with her the experience that mirrors many men. Also read online Dr. Tinari "Brain Visualization Research during Male Infant Circumcision" The Canadian government paid for Tinari's surgical foreskin restoration because they were responsible funding The United Church of Canada forced boarding school for Indian peoples of Canada, whereby he was jumped by 3 priests, pulled down his pants, grabbed his penis and circumcised unsterilized with a knife and left to bleed on his own. Sometimes the dorsal nerves get nicked with circumcision resulting in the distal 1/3rd. being numb. My friend's husband has this problem, He feels nothing. Last month a boy's parents won their suit against a Mohel/DR. for $429,484 for cutting off his foreskin and glans. (BTW we now from others he should be able to orgasm even without all his sexual receptors.)
 
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August 05, 2009 | 7:43 AM
 
Sadly the *problem* with discussing female circumcision practices in Africa is that it is so much hot air on two accounts. Firstly, it is in Africa, not here (wherever "here" happens to be) and very little of "our" business except where people attempt to bring their barbaric practices to us. ________________________________________________ Secondly, and of much greater import, is that if *we* cannot protect males in our society, then what right on earth have we to tell others how to protect females? *Clearly* we are "talking through our hats" if we - as a society - are so blatantly guilty of doing the very thing we criticise. Only when we have removed the "log in our own eyes" might we have the vision to help other societies. ________________________________________________ I find it eternally humorous to see/ hear women pontificating on how "unclean" an intact man's genitals are, with such complete apparent oblivion to how vastly more filthy their *own* - uncircumcised - genitals are by comparison. ________________________________________________ Appalled by the viciousness of the anti-circumcision brigade? I have to laugh! We have people who think it is *their* right to sexually abuse and mutilate their children simply because they *own* them and want to impose their fashion sense? Well, if we are not supposed to "berate" them, what about standing up for the rights of all the *other* sex offenders not to be hounded as they are by the police and media. Gimme a break! :)
 
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July 21, 2009 | 9:50 AM
 
It's ridiculous that some parents cannot fathom the idea that their children actually should hold some rights to their own body. If you're concerned that your child will have issues cleaning their natural, healthy body parts, perhaps that reflects more on your parenting than anything else--you haven't even given him a chance to prove you wrong, you've just assumed. That's not an excuse for unnecessary surgery (not that anything is). And you know what? It doesn't really matter what the function of the foreskin is--it's not yours, so you really have no business doing anything to it (other than washing) when there's no medical reason to do so.
 
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July 20, 2009 | 11:33 PM
 
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July 20, 2009 | 4:04 PM
 
This is how wars get started - because people get so angry when others don't think the same way they do. I'm appalled by the viciousness of the anti-circumcision brigade. I'm sure this will open me up to more venomous attacks, but here goes. I have two sons, both of whom my husband and I chose to have circumcised - after much thought, discussion and research. We didn't take this decision lightly. But I believe we made the right choice for our boys. If being circumcised were as awful as the previous comments make it appear, I'm sure my husband (or any of the men in our families for that matter) would have told me we shouldn't do it. After all, he should know best, being a circumcised male himself. The decision my husband and I made doesn't make us awful parents or awful people. As parents we are often forced to make potentially life-altering decisions for our children when they are too young to make decisions for themselves. As parents we ALL make different choices - should I spank or not? breastfeed or not? vaccines or not? abort or not? - that others may not agree with, but we try to make the right choices for our own families.
 
Annie Report as Spam
July 20, 2009 | 2:51 PM
 
i agree with venessa and coleen and will have my son circumsized. i am disgusted, however, with those of you that choose to berate them for their personal beliefs.
 
rachel Report as Spam
July 20, 2009 | 12:27 PM
 
Personally i am against circumcision and i am actually embarrassed to admit that after reading some of the ignorant and spiteful comments here. Obviously there are some people with other agendas, but for me it's more of a personal thing since i am actually circumcised myself. I'm not going to turn this into a sexual debate either, since it doesnt effect me at all in that matter. However my circumcision was not done properly and this is something that does effect someone on an emotional level. From my own personal experience it can have some pretty devastating outcomes on an individuals confidence and self-esteem. Im not about to tell anyone else what they should do with their child, but make sure if your choice is to have them circumcised, that it's done properly. In my case it wasn't, and of course there was no way for me to realize it until i was well into my teens and im not about to have it done again.
 
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July 20, 2009 | 10:34 AM
 
Why does everything in American society have to revolve around SEX? most of your comments all complain about circumcised males not fully enjoying sex. That is completly ridiculous considering that I don't know any guy who complains that sex is not good circumcised or not. Frank McGinness, what does my last name have to do with anything?? your point was???? TD, you need to look up your facts first. saying female circumcision is the same as male is wrong. Female circumcision is NOT the same, their prepuce is removed and their clitoris may be partially or completely removed. In some traditions the operation is far more invasive: the labia minora are also surgically removed and the labia majora are sewn together, covering the urethra and vagina. A small opening is retained for the passage of urine and menstrual fluid. TD if that's the same for male circumcision then you should just cut of the head of the penis right? then we can call it even. And to the rest of you who decided to write your comments based on my opinion, IT'S MY OPINION, and I have the right to my own opinion. You all have your own beliefs, and thanks for commenting on what you believe in. I believe what I believe and I am still going to circumcise my child regardless. My entire husband's side of the family are all circumcised and I don't see or hear any of them complaining about how many orgasms they've had problems achieving. and to Mary Noll I just have to comment on what you said, from the sound of it most of the males you've come in contact with sound like they're all on meds for their pain and suffering. Gosh I didn't realize that so many men are just walking around feeling sorry for themselves that thier mommy and daddy decided to cut off the most important part of their penis. It's a shame that that's all they think about all day long. Geez, I wonder how they get on with their day? and as for "praying that I only have girls"?? is that all you have to pray about? how about praying that your own family stays healthy, or your husband (if you have one)doesn't drop dead with a heart attack, or how about all those soldiers dying in Iraq? and since you like praying, maybe you should give the bible a read. isn't it in there somewhere about circumcising your children? maybe you'll have few words to god then too? You should go back and read Genesis and Exodus. and as for Stephanie, who thinks this country is "disgusting", maybe you should consider moving? people are dying in Iraq for ungrateful IDIOTS like yourself so please do us all a favor and MOVE.
 
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July 15, 2009 | 1:28 PM
 
Fantastic article. It really is sickening that so many ignorant parents in the US are still opting to do this completely unnecessary cosmetic surgery on their babies, whom they are supposed to protect at all costs, thus depriving them of normal sex for the rest of their lives. 'It's our choice!' - why should it be?! Go and speak to someone who has raised an intact boy, they won't have had problems, they can show you how easy it is. 10 seconds in the shower for a grown man, that's all it takes to stay clean. Less than women, for the most part. The foreskin isn't useless, it has many functions and both men and women who have experienced both intact and mutilated penises can attest to that. I'm so glad people are seeing this 'procedure' for what it is and men and women alike are standing up for the rights of boys to be protected from unnecessary genital surgery, just like girls already are in many cases. FGM and MGM have huge ranges of severity; it matters not, they all violate the rights of the child, permanently damaging sexual tissue. It's unacceptable.
 
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July 13, 2009 | 9:28 PM
 
America is sexist and not for equality because girls, not boys, are protected from circumcision, and from even drawing a drop of blood for cultural or ritual circumcision. Stand for sexual equality and basic human rights at MGMbill.org. Circumcision also kills parts of the brain when its cells are no longer receiving neural impulses, they atrophy and die. Then adjacent brain cells grow into this dead space chaotically. Circ. removes about 75% of what is most important. That's 65% - 85% of the sexual receptors cut off typically. 85% when the frenulum is also stolen then leaving 15% fine touch sexual receptors at the glans corona which otherwise is only loaded with hot/cold pain receptors. The glans being the least sensitive part of the penis then becomes the most sensitive when the most sensitive parts are discarded/sold for $15 to make facial creams and grow hair. Circumcision sexually handicaps. Callousing of a 40ish man has the thickness of 1 - 2 condoms. Those who also lost their glans report they can orgasm it just is very hard. There are degrees of male and female circ. The US does radical circ. aka medically Penile Reduction. Circumcision is still usually performed without pain relief because of its complications. Circ. entails tearing & crushing & cutting & sometimes stitching, scraping away the frenulum, burning cauterize the sensitive part of the body. Nelson Mandela's own adolescent circ. he described as blinding white light that electrically burns the whole body. Others that were forced circ. said pain was unbearable, that such pain is inconceivable. Circ. is torture that estimates kills over 100 infants each year. Studies show infant circ. PTSD not found in intact males. !2-33% of infant circ's. later have meatal stenosis needing their glans crushed then cut to pee properly. The public is not educated: the CDC says over 30% of young males mistake their penile status whether intact or circ'd. . Intact America/intactivists fight by giving all the information to inform everyone all around the world for both sexes. In most places where there is circ., it is done to both sexes. These cultures see it as the same thing, no difference. America can learn from this view of its own cultural bias. To promote male circ. in places where female circ. has stopped, will/and already has brought back female circ. Please support the UN's "Rights Of the Child" not US supported. It wasn't until 400a.c.e. that the Jewish Priestly Class (P-text) incorporated radical circ.(Leviticus 17) to stop Jewish males from restoring their foreskins though stretching. Before that circ. was less harmful because only the foreskin past the glans was cut off leaving more sensory mucosa and receptors plus no tearing of the foreskin from the glans. And before this there was no circumcision/covenant but animals sacrifice/covenant (Leviticus 15). Covenant means to cut (a) contract. Foreskin/glans tearing immediately leaves healing scars from the cut to the glans tip. Degree of scarring and its thickness depends on how far along natural glans separation and circumcisers prowess. Best read: Glick's book "Marked in Your Flesh", Patricia Robinett's "The Rape of Innocence". Note: I chose circ. at age 5 and was happy until puberty then I experienced sensory loss over years and started to understand why most intact men in the bible would rather be dead than be without their foreskin (David's dowry of 200 foreskins) and why Roman law criminalized circumcision and penalized circumcisers. Mine was the worst mistake of my life. Educate and ask what would Jesus do? (He wouldn't circumcise the penis, base blood letting, but circumcise the heart, a higher plane of belief.) Coleen and Vanessa how about "Do onto others as you would have them do onto you" ? Circumcision is ALL about Power.
 
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July 13, 2009 | 8:45 PM
 
I am sick and tired of people saying that they thing that circumcision is ok....any man who says they are grateful that are circ'ed is LYING...or ignorant....or both. Most men who have had the unfortunate knowledge of what it is like to have it "both ways" will tell you that being intact is FAR superior. Shallow, self-centered women who think it is more aesthetically pleasing and "cleaner" are stupid ignorant people, who I hope NEVER have sons. It is not cleaner, it is not hard to clean...and this country is DISGUSTING for continuing the practice of mutilating our sons daily because "it's what we do." If you moved to a country where it is "what is done" to your daughters, would you do it to them? NO. This sickening, outdated barbaric practice is slowly going away, and the circumcised men are quickly becoming the minority...Thank God!
 
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July 13, 2009 | 7:42 PM
 
Colleen, if you think that all guys who are cut are 'grateful', you and they are deluding themselves. Many men bury their true feelings about what happened to them, and can't even believe that their sex life is less than it could be thanks to their frenulum and foreskin being destroyed/torn off. As a result, they deny what happened to them, or get angry and refuse to think that what happened to them as a 'bad thing'. They are denying their own pain. Thankfully, many men are discovering non surgical foreskin restoration and ARE RESTORING, much to the joy of themselves AND their partners. TLCTugger.com has a huge amount of business from guys who apparently are not happy about being chopped! And, vaginal dryness, lack of good orgasm is also something prevalent with women of circumcised partners. And, sex with uncircumcised men is better too, the foreskin bunches up and hits the womens 'g' spot, making sex way more fun. Circumcision deprives both partners of a better orgasm. Another reason Viagra sales are 'up' so much in the USA. Men aren't happy with their sex lives, thanks to circumcision.
 
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July 10, 2009 | 8:15 PM
 
That was a very great article. Circumcised males are missing about 15 square inches of penile skin, circumcisions cut off the most innervated parts of the foreskin, and when males are circumcisaed everything dries out and thick layers of dead cells cover over everything which further decreases sensations and pleasure. Most males who were circumcised as a baby have no idea what they're missing, otherwise I think most circumcised males would be outraged that they were circumcised. I am outraged that I was circumcised when I was a baby, and I've heard from many other males who are outraged that they were circumcised when they were a baby. I don't think very many parents would let their baby sons be circumcised if parents were well informed about the value and benefits of the foreskin. Currently about 56% of baby boys are circumcised in the U.S., but as people become more well informed about how harmful and unnecessary circumcisions are, the circumcision rate should fall a lot lower.
 
Steve Report as Spam
July 10, 2009 | 11:30 AM
 
Venessa--I completely agree with you. And I don't think the issue is fear of sex or sexuality at all. When I have children, if I have a boy, I will have them circumcised. And it's not because I'm afraid to "go outsdie cultural norms." Its because its cleaner and the right thing to do based on my personal beliefs. And being circumcized isn't going "too far." Every male I know, who are all circumcised, are grateful they have been.
 
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July 10, 2009 | 10:44 AM
 
I am pregnant with my second child and although my first is a girl when asked by my doctor both times if I wanted to have my child circumcised if it's a boy I didn't hesitate to say yes. Even though the argument is that you can teach your child to clean himself and take care of his uncircumcised penis unfortunately they tend not to do such a good job. All of my ex-boyfriends were not circumcised and when I met my current husband who is and does not have a problem with it, I realise now how gross it is not being circumcised. As a woman, I prefer that they be circumcised for my overall health. I would not have it any other way and if this next baby is a boy I will definately be circumcising him.
 
Venessa Report as Spam
July 09, 2009 | 10:33 AM
 
I circumscised both of my sons when they were born. I am not so sure I would do it again with the information that I have now.
 
Leslie Report as Spam
July 09, 2009 | 10:03 AM
 
Great article. However, I feel we should also discuss female circumsion practices in Africa. I believe that this act is barbaric and should be outlawed. I suppose my point is that circumsion is wrong for both sexes, but who is fighting for those girl's in Africa? Where is their protection? I may be off topic, but as I read this article that was the first thought that popped into my head.
 
Sarah Report as Spam
July 07, 2009 | 5:35 PM
 
Absolutely AWESOME article. It is so wonderful to see the ethical side of this issue explored. I hope that many people will read this article and realize that this procedure is not only unnecessary, but harmful, and a violation of human rights.
 
Joel Report as Spam
July 01, 2009 | 10:10 PM
 
Great work! Intact America is really doing a wonderful job with educating parents and protecting the rights of children.
 
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